Do you remember walking down the streets of Orchard and laughing at how that girl with a slightly overweight body?
Do you remember judging anyone for the slightest thing?
Even if its just how her hair is out of place even the slightest bit.
If your answer to ALL of that is no, you must be lying.
As much as all of us say that we hate people who are judgemental, being nice to you in front of you, but thinking bad about you inside. But we are human. We all have them moments.
Criticizing someone before knowing him/her? I have done it before. It isn't right, but in my opinion, it is perfectly normal. I mean, we are all humans.
Crossing someone out of your clique, just because you don't like the way she talks? Checked.
Turning your back on someone just because you think you guys won't click? Checked.
Talking behind someone's back, unknowingly turning people's back against them because they did something you didn't like? Checked.
All of us do it. No matter how much you say you don't, its all fake. I mean its second nature for us to judge. But it doesn't mean we do them on purpose. Sometimes, we hurt people. Sometimes we get hurt.
It is part and parcel of life.
The most important thing is to realise your mistakes and don't make it again.
The most important thing is to learn not to hurt other people.
Things you don't know can't hurt you.
It is part of us that we judge, but please learn how to judge and not get caught. Because when your judgement cause someone to start cutting and eventually fall into depression, you are ruining someone's life
Be smart. It's ok to not like someone, but don't run it in their face.
Hugs and kisses:3
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